Monday, April 29, 2013

A new collective.

This blog is in desperate need of a fresh start. Let's face it, it can be VERY difficult getting all your friends in the same room for a celebration, it is even harder getting friends to stay on top of a virtual meetup. As a result, this collective is down to a party of one, but I can be quite a handful on my own, so I'm okay with it.

As for me, I know I am also to blame for not keeping this blog updated. Ever since getting my new teaching gig in November, I have been swamped with teaching, grading, taking classes, and then trying to fit in all the other tidbits of life. From here on out, I am going try to be more dedicated in all the goodness happening with me and leave you with a photo walk down memory lane of what you've missed. Enjoy!


Early dismissal from snow on Monday, then this beautiful sunrise and nice weather by Thursday before Spring Break started on Friday

Yummy goodies-- strawberry cupcakes, confetti cupcakes, frozen drink on the beach in Florida, and enchiladas
 Drinks on the beach, double date dinner with Sam and Wes in Florida, and SeaWorld:)
  

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Procrastinating.

Do you ever think about doing something and then you decide to not do it because you've already put it off for awhile?

...Like going to work out?
...Or getting your eyebrows waxed (or plucking them)?
...Or scheduling your doctor/dentist/etc appointments?
...Like painting your nails?
...Or cleaning out your car?
...Organizing your computer files?
...Sorting your mail?
...Like getting your hair cut/colored?
...Or making returns?
...Doing laundry/taking things to the tailors/dry cleaners?
...Or grading papers? (Come on teachers, you know it's true)

...Or maybe updating your blog?

Yea, I'm having one of those moments.

I'll be back to my regularly scheduled programming after this period of procrastination is over.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.

So life is a combination of good and bad right? We can't appreciate the good, if we never have the bad. So here it is...



1. Completing my mission of buying an ornament for my ornament swap hosted by Living in Yellow. Not only is it so much fun to buy something for someone else that you don't even know, but I also got to do some good in the process. See, I was at Pier 1 searching for a cute, quirky, pretty ornament and upon checking out, I also picked up a pack of holiday cards for UNICEF. I was like, "Hey, what a good idea and helping others too!" And then, when I asked the employee, he told me not that 10% or 25% or 50% of the money I spent on the cards went to UNICEF, but 100%!!! This is not something you always hear, so I was very happy to spend my $12 on something that supports children, who are the most valuable members of society (in my opinion). I bought the watercolor deer card above, but I also liked the snow flurries one and loved the inside message: "A season that sparkles, a new year that shines." I hope that Lindsay likes what I picked out too!

2. Getting together with friends (old and new) to celebrate Thanksgiving early! The boy and I were invited to a potluck this past weekend and it was so much fun! I was a little nervous going in because even though I've known a lot of the people since high school, they weren't close friends or anything. Once we got there, though, I had some really good conversations and realized I can connect with a lot of these people in new ways that I hadn't been able to before. My favorite part was when the host gave a toast about how they've done the potluck for five years and they are so thankful to have great people in their lives and bring everyone together (oh, and the food!!) I guess I really am becoming a grown-up now!

3. The amazing neck/back massages bf gives me almost daily. I hope he knows how much I appreciate them! For some reason, I always have a million knots in my neck, especially, so I'm one lucky girl to get free daily massages.



4. The fact that it's eggnog latte season!! Yessssss time to hit the gym to offset the holiday season. I went into Starbucks the other week and just asked when the eggnog lattes start and they said NOW! Woohoo! I don't know why they aren't advertising it though. Imagine all that eggnoggy goodness going to waste. True story-- I don't really even like egg nog (well, except when my sister mixes it up with rum), but I love these egg nog lattes. When I first tried one, I hated it, but I guess it's an acquired taste ;)

5. Anddd possibly the best thing that has happened in the last week is that I GOT A JOB!!! Yes, it's true-- I'm a real person again. For all of you who aren't related to me/FIRL (friends in real life) and don't know my professional history, let me break it down for you: I graduated UD with a BA in English (Literature)/Women's Studies. Whenever I was asked all of college if I wanted to be a teacher I said, "No, I'm an English major, not an English Education major. Duh." I thought college was to make me an educated, well-rounded citizen prepared for life and critical thinking and being articulate. This is not the common view anymore and most people see college as job-training and that college major=career path. It wasn't until senior year of college that I realized that Women's Equality (specifically in health) was my passion. Long story short, I didn't get into grad school to pursue a doctorate in this area. I then decided to get my MBA in Health Care Administration. After a year of doing that, I got a random call one day asking if I'd be interested in teaching high school English. I jumped at the opportunity, interviewed and, miraculously, got the job. Must be in the genes since my mom is a teacher too (Professor/Director, to be specific). I worked at that position dramatically imrpoving my teaching skills and then my temporary contract was up at the end of the year. Another long story short, I didn't get rehired due to district reorganization and then didn't get any other job I applied/interviewed for. Bummer. However, I was also very tired of teaching by this point and needed some life assessment...so I went for a walk...for a month. As you may know by now, I spent a little less than a month in the wilderness/backcountry/woods and hiked 221+ miles completing the John Muir Trail. I dreamt and thought about teaching many more times than I anticipated and decided I had made a path. I started the school year subbing and applying to any openings. I had two interviews and on Tuesday I got the call! Meet your new 9th and 10th grade English Language Arts Instructor for a local public high school! Cannot wait to get started and see what this year brings and try to make my classroom and classes great!

The Worst:

1. While making corn casserole for the Thanksgiving potluck and chopping up 4 jalepeno peppers, I proceeded to touch my eyeball and have the fire of hell unleashed onto my eye. I had even washed my hands already, but I guess that pepper oil hangs on. I thought quickly on my feet (literally jumping back and forth from the pain) and rinsed by eye with milk-- AMAZING! I figured that I needed milk or bread, just like when you eat spicy food, and I was right. It still had a little pain and blurriness, but it worked out pretty well to reduce the severe, debillitating burn.

2. Only to touch my other eyeball about an hour or so later (even though I washed my hands again and rinsed them with milk!!) Ugh. I never learn.

3. Getting notices in the mail that they are going to kill me (or refer me to a collection agency) for the $5 I owe for getting bloodwork done months ago. This stuff always kills me because why can't they have me pay it when I'm there?! Or have a card on file?! I always pay my copays at the time of service, yet I get billed for the bloodwork copay later. Then, I forget and forget to call up during their business hours and then I get threatening letters that say things like "FINAL NOTICE." I need to figure out a system to handle this kind of minutae.

4. Losing my debit card. Jesus. This was a mess and a half. Also, it is really embarrassing. Have you ever had this happen (come on, I know I'm not the only mess here)? It's so awkward because you are, say, paying for your coffee when you can't find it and you start to panic and then you realize it really isn't in your bag, but you put on this whole "I'm searching for my card in every single pocket" dance so that the cashier picks up the fact that you really did lose it and aren't just a bum. Then you don't have any cash (because who carries cash?) and you try another card only for it to not work because it's, duh, expired. (Because I try to only use one card!) So then you give them your emergency AMEX and, shocker, they don't take AMEX because it is a small business that doesn't want the high fees of AMEX (how many times can you fit AMEX into one sentence? three.) Thank god there isn't a line piling up behind you, but you are pretty sure you have made a scene and drawn way too much attention to yourself anyway, so you must leave. Without your coffee. In shame. Promising you'll be right back. Only to come back 2 hours later, but, hey, at least you kept your promise. And you regain some of your pride, showing up with cash (look, I've got money!) and a working card (that you left in your other coat pocket days ago). The coffee shop people just look at you with pity and make you a new white rhino (white chocolate, raspberry) latte, since your other one is clearly cold now. What. A. Saga.



Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Bringing sexy back

On my wedding day I experienced one of those "oh shit" moments. I realized that I hadn't gotten my hubby-to-be a wedding day gift. After my little moment of panic, my wits returned and I decided to gift him a heart-warming card, as well as his BJ's membership card (I am such a great wife!).

Luckily post-wedding, my sister was able to help me with a wedding gift idea - set up a sexy wifey photo shoot.

Today was election day, and, seeing as my school is a polling place, teachers had off from school today. That meant that my Tuesday became "make a million phone calls Tuesday." I called to finally set up my photo shoot, only to have the chick tell me to send an email since she wasn't in the office (but that is another rant).

Anyhoo... This evening I was getting into the shower and luckily had a wall of 1990's construction mirrors (seriously, it's bad) to tell me see what my body has become post-wedding work outs. I went from being 120ish to a plumper 127 with no definition.

That being said... I have decided that I need to start maintaining my sexy.

xo Natalie

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Surviving the storm.

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Well, we survived. No power outages, no need to raid our non-perishable food supply, no board games played. I have to first say that we are lucky. All reports of Sandy's path showed it going right through Newark, but I think the areas that had the most damage were those that were affected by the storm surge and flooding. I am happy to say that we were so lucky. I feel for those that have had their lives turned upside down by this storm and I know there is a long road ahead for many of the coastal communities that have been destroyed. Even my own sister, who lives in the East Village, is currently evacuating to the Bronx, as she lives in Zone B (literally across the street from Zone A which was evacuated due to the storm surge). Her apartment complex was flooded and the cars were submerged. Power is out. Thankfully, she is safe and has a friend she can stay with until things get settled.


Isn't there something about not having power that is fun though? It takes me back to being a little kid. You have to become inventive and you get to play board games. I think it allows us a nice respite from the inundation of technology in our lives. We have to put away the smartphone, the laptop, turn off the tv, and enjoy just being with each other. Take in the quiet. Light the candles. Laugh. This is one thing I love about storms (maybe a thunderstorm, rather than this monstrosity) and one thing I missed out on this storm. I'm not complaining about being blessed during this hurricane, but I do love how these things can bring us together. It slows life down a bit. We get to reconnect on a human level and I think that can be a very beautiful thing.


Friday, October 26, 2012

Some reading material

One thing I love (and I've always loved) is reading novels. Although I read a lot of mysteries in my teens, I have definitely developed a taste for urban fantasy. I guess it started with an incredible like for The Lord of the Rings (read it twice in French, once in English). My reading record being 5 days (during which I was forcefully taken to the grocery store, taking me away from a delightful read). Since I am kind of a book-a-holic, I have slow down a bit.

Anyway, I am still reading and now it is more urban fantasy. One of my favorite authors are Ilona Andrews. They are a couple and they write together. Their series Kate Daniels, takes place in a sort of post-apocalyptic world, where magic infuses the world by waves. I tried to write down a summary but I failed and think I might as well let them describe the setting:

The world has suffered a magic apocalypse. We pushed the technological progress too far, and now magic returned with a vengeance. It comes in waves, without warning, and vanishes as suddenly as it appears. When magic is up, planes drop out of the sky, cars stall, electricity dies. When magic is down, guns work and spells fail.
It’s a volatile, screwed-up world. Magic feeds on technology, gnawing down on skyscrappers until most of them topple and fall, leaving only skeletal husks behind. Monsters prowl the ruined streets, werebears and werehyenas stalk their prey; and the Masters of the Dead, necromancers driven by their thirst of knowledge and wealth, pilot blood-crazed vampires with their minds.
In this world lives Kate Daniels. Kate likes her sword a little too much and has a hard time controlling her mouth. The magic in her blood makes her a target, and she spent most of her life hiding in plain sight.  But sometimes even trained killers make friends and fall in love, and when the universe tries to kick them in the face, they kick back.

Dialogues are awesome, the mythology is always richly described. The characters are really interesting, and lovable. I think that they managed to keep the romance part interesting without it being a complicated affair involving many characters and a long period of time. It's pretty straightforward and I appreciate that. The series got better with each book, book 3 being my all-time favorite. There are 5 books out, and the 6th is due for release next year. There are several free fiction written from the point of view of Curran, the male steamy interest in the series. And there is an additional book on one of the side characters, which is still very good. It is kind of an in-between installment between book 5 and 6.  It is highly recommended. 

And you know what's even better? They are currently writing a free fiction! It's called Clean Sweep and it's pretty interesting. You can find it here: http://demo.ilona-andrews.com/category/clean-sweep/

They have been pretty good at posting at least an installment a week, and the story is really interesting already! 

I also recommended following their blog, as they chronicle their writing adventures with a sizable ménagerie of cats, dogs, and two teen girls: http://www.ilona-andrews.com/blog 

They are one of two authors I regularly follow on their blog. 

I hope you will give them a try :) 

Sophie


Meet Sophie

Hello! My name is Sophie and I’m a PhD student. I’m originally from France, but have lived all my adult years out of the country – in Montréal for 6 years, and in Delaware for the past 2. In my free time, I cook (a lot!), I read (a lot too!), I run, I sometimes crochet, and try to learn more about food and healthy living (but you can find out about that last part here [insert link], on the blog I keep with a vegetarian/vegan friend). Of course, as a grad student, free time comes in homeopathic doses, but I try to make the best of it!

I have traveled a bit and lived in 4 countries (France, Québec, Brazil and the US). I have always traveled for study, but I managed to do some tourism at the same time. Next year I am going back to Brazil (If I manage to finish that proposal!) and I should be going to San Francisco (a dream of several years!). I will share here about my reads (I like Urban Fantasy), my craft ideas (I am no Martha Stewart, but I find it very calming to crochet!), and I’m sure some recipes will make it to this blog.

I have been Rachel’s roommate for over a year, and have been friends with Lili and Lisa for about the same amount of time. I am very glad to share this journey with the 3 amazing girls on this blog and see where this will take us! 

This is Lili and me at her birthday!